avcodec/videotoolbox: fix decoding of some h264 bitstreams

avcodec/videotoolbox: fix decoding of some h264 bitstreams

This affects Annex B streams (such as demuxed from .ts and others). It
also handles the format change in reinit-large_420_8-to-small_420_8.h264
correctly.

Instead of passing through the extradata, create it on the fly it from
the currently active SPS and PPS. Since reconstructing the PPS and SPS
NALs would be very complicated and verbose, we use the NALs as they
originally appeared in the bitstream.

The code for writing the extradata is somewhat derived from
libavformat/avc.c, but it's small and different enough that sharing it
is not really worth it.