pthread_frame: do not attempt to unlock a mutex on the wrong thread

pthread_frame: do not attempt to unlock a mutex on the wrong thread

async_mutex has is used in a very strange but intentional way: it is
locked by default, and unlocked only in regions that can be run
concurrently.

If the user was calling API functions to the same context from different
threads (in a safe way), this could unintentionally unlock the mutex on
a different thread than the previous lock operation. It's not allowed by
the pthread API.

Fix this by emulating a binary semaphore using a mutex and condition
variable. (Posix semaphores are not available on all platforms.)

Tested-by: Michael Niedermayer <michael@niedermayer.cc>
Reviewed-by: Michael Niedermayer <michael@niedermayer.cc>