ffmpeg: move subframe warning to libavcodec

ffmpeg: move subframe warning to libavcodec

With the new decode API, doing this in ffmpeg.c is impractical. There
was resistance against removing the warning, so put it into libavcodec.

Not bothering with reducing the warning to verbose log level for
subsequent wanrings. The warning should be rare, and only happen when
developing new codecs for the old API.

Includes a change suggested by Michael Niedermayer.