Generate binaries for more advanced architectures

use intel's Software Development Emulator (SDE) in the actions that build the binaries.
This allows for building on Windows and Linux binaries for
- x86-64-avx512
- x86-64-vnni256
- x86-64-vnni512

(x86-64-avxvnni needs more recent gcc in the actions)

also build x86-64-avx2 on macos.

closes https://github.com/official-stockfish/Stockfish/pull/4679

No functional change