ffmpeg: switch to codecpar

ffmpeg: switch to codecpar

This commit is largely based on commit 15e84ed3 from Anton Khirnov
<anton@khirnov.net> which was previously skipped in bbf5ef9d.

There are still a bunch of things raising codecpar related warnings that
need fixing, such as:
- the use of codec->debug in the interactive debug mode
- read_ffserver_streams(): it's probably broken now but there is no test
- lowres stuff
- codec copy apparently required by bitstream filters

The matroska references are updated because they now properly forward
the field_order (previously unknown, now progressive).

Thanks to James Almer for fixing a bunch of FATE issues in this commit.

Signed-off-by: Clément Bœsch <clement@stupeflix.com>
Signed-off-by: James Almer <jamrial@gmail.com>